Japanese communication skill is not absolutely vital to score yourself a Japanese girl. I am acquainted with more than a few lotharios in Tokyo who can scarcely decipher the menu at a Japanese restaurant, but take home women with astonishing frequency. Anyone would be startled at precisely how far a couple of phrases in addition to a ton of gestures and grabby-handing can go.
But bear in mind, don't think that you can be lazy with your language game. Conversing in Japanese is undoubtedly and tremendously beneficial given that it exponentially increases the amount of chicks you can talk to. English education here is godawful. Moreover, the majority of Japanese girls can barely respond to "How are you?" without getting nervous. If you do not speak Japanese, you are precluding yourself from a very large slice of the beautiful girls in Japan. I imagine this is true for any country, however, it is without a doubt most visible in Asian nations that have low percentages of competent English speakers.
Japanese-English speaking proficiency will give you the opportunity to game pretty much any girl you see in Japan, native or non. And since most foreigners here can't speak much Japanese, you will differentiate yourself from the pack of come-and-go English teachers and foreign exchange students who didn't bother to pick up a copy of "Japanese for Busy People". In the world of dating, even and especially in conformist societies like Japan, standing out from the crowd in a positive way is always beneficial.
If you're interested in keeping girls who don't speak much English around for longer than a few nights, you'll need to be able to converse with them in Japanese. Speaking a foreign language is mentally tiring, and Japanese girls typically don't have the greatest cognitive endurance. Even if you're just looking for something temporary, speaking Japanese will let girls at least entertain the idea that you could have long term potential.
For those of you who still aren't motivated to learn Japanese, consider the following. If you don't speak Japanese, you will need to find girls who speak English. These girls congregate in certain foreigner-heavy areas (e.g., Roppongi) and tend to be a bit...wilder than their non-English speaking counterparts. They are also in high demand because most foreigners don't speak much Japanese. A scarce resource in high demand means fierce competition.
A caveat for the language geeks: Japanese girls will not go home with you simply because you're bilingual. You could have a doctorate in Japanese language studies, but if you look more like a chump than a champ, you'll be going home alone.
In a nutshell, Japanese isn't absolutely necessary for dating girls in Japan, but having the capacity to do so will make it a lot easier. If you anticipate being in Tokyo for more than a short vacation, you should start studying.
Always remember, "Let's help each other study" is a classic pretense for a date.
But bear in mind, don't think that you can be lazy with your language game. Conversing in Japanese is undoubtedly and tremendously beneficial given that it exponentially increases the amount of chicks you can talk to. English education here is godawful. Moreover, the majority of Japanese girls can barely respond to "How are you?" without getting nervous. If you do not speak Japanese, you are precluding yourself from a very large slice of the beautiful girls in Japan. I imagine this is true for any country, however, it is without a doubt most visible in Asian nations that have low percentages of competent English speakers.
Japanese-English speaking proficiency will give you the opportunity to game pretty much any girl you see in Japan, native or non. And since most foreigners here can't speak much Japanese, you will differentiate yourself from the pack of come-and-go English teachers and foreign exchange students who didn't bother to pick up a copy of "Japanese for Busy People". In the world of dating, even and especially in conformist societies like Japan, standing out from the crowd in a positive way is always beneficial.
If you're interested in keeping girls who don't speak much English around for longer than a few nights, you'll need to be able to converse with them in Japanese. Speaking a foreign language is mentally tiring, and Japanese girls typically don't have the greatest cognitive endurance. Even if you're just looking for something temporary, speaking Japanese will let girls at least entertain the idea that you could have long term potential.
For those of you who still aren't motivated to learn Japanese, consider the following. If you don't speak Japanese, you will need to find girls who speak English. These girls congregate in certain foreigner-heavy areas (e.g., Roppongi) and tend to be a bit...wilder than their non-English speaking counterparts. They are also in high demand because most foreigners don't speak much Japanese. A scarce resource in high demand means fierce competition.
A caveat for the language geeks: Japanese girls will not go home with you simply because you're bilingual. You could have a doctorate in Japanese language studies, but if you look more like a chump than a champ, you'll be going home alone.
In a nutshell, Japanese isn't absolutely necessary for dating girls in Japan, but having the capacity to do so will make it a lot easier. If you anticipate being in Tokyo for more than a short vacation, you should start studying.
Always remember, "Let's help each other study" is a classic pretense for a date.
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